Thought For The Day 04/15/13


God’s Church




Golf is the closest game to the game we call life. You get bad breaks from good shots; you get good breaks from bad shots – but you have to play the ball where it lies. 

Bobby Jones


Golf! Perhaps the favorite sport in my family as I was growing up. My grandfather played, and he taught my father, who still plays at least once a week at nearly 87 years young! So it should be of little surprise to anyone reading this, to learn that I married a man who lives and breathes golf, as well. I remember well the very first day of our honeymoon (which very nearly became the last day of our marriage), when Dan decided to play not one 18 hole round of golf, not two 18 hole rounds, but THREE 18 HOLE ROUNDS OF GOLF! The first day of our/MY honeymoon.


He left while it was still dark in the morning and he returned to the hotel room after darkness had fallen once more, some 12 hours later, to find his bags packed! (I would have been long gone, but he had the car!!!!!) Anyway, I mulled over the situation, decided I was better off with him than without him and so we made up and continued to have a blissfully wonderful 10 more days together, during which time he did not play another round, which was his penance! AND, while my husband has some disagreeable qualities, as do all of us, especially ME, one thing he is, is a gentleman. So is my father, which is why they both love what has come to be known as the “Gentlemen’s Game”!


That is what makes golf different from many other games played at both an amateur and professional level. You see, unlike other games which have referees or umpires who enforce the rules, in the game of golf, rules for acceptable behavior are self-determined. Yes, there is a written set of golfing “laws”. However, in golf, there is no “Big Brother” looking over your shoulder (save a million plus viewing audience overseeing every move on the PGA tour events). It is expected that when a play you make violates the rules, you contact tournament officials or the members of your four-some, you admit the violation, and you accept the consequences for your action. Sometimes that even means withdrawing from the competition or the game, if you are playing a friendly round at the local club! You see, in golf, unlike some other sporting competitions, integrity is always the rule and not the exception. Which is why golf is good practice for life, in general.


I once read this quote, “Don’t just go to church. Be the church”! A church is not a place or a building. A church is a place contained within every human heart. And while many golfers forgo church for a Sunday morning round, because of the gentlemen’s code of golfing ethics, most golfers are a church! You see, everywhere we go, the goodness of God’s light shines as a beacon through our behavior and the actions our attitudes engender.


We tend to think of words when we seek to explain things to people. But our words, while they carry much weight about who we are, do not reveal all that we are. Who we really are is revealed in the degree of our honesty and integrity in our dealings with others….something golfers understand. Who we are is seen by others in how we act toward them, and the kindnesses we offer by those actions that we take as we live our lives. Luke 6:38 ESV reminds us that even as we share kindness with others, so will God’s kindness and blessings be returned to us! “Give, and it will be given to you. Good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over, will be put into your lap. For with the measure you use it will be measured back to you.” 


When we live life with integrity, standing up to and then openly admitting our weaknesses, we are seldom viewed as a weak person. Our weaknesses do not define us as a person any more that our eye color defines who we are. Instead, it is our honesty and openness….indeed, all of the parts that make up our character, that speak of the person we are inside. Yes, that is generally the part of us that is known by only ourselves and God, until our deeds speak of them to those we meet! And it is then that we all become God’s church to the world, although it won’t help us to become the next Phil Mickelson or Arnold Palmer!


“Whoever walks in integrity walks securely, but whoever takes crooked paths will be found out.”
Proverbs 10:9 NIV


Copyright © 2011-2013 “MandysPath” Ministry


About Mandy Bruscella

Mandy's Story: As a Registered Professional Nurse with Certification in a number of specialties including home care, I was afforded the opportunity of working closely with various Social Service Agencies in NY and NJ. ~ A lifelong Christian, I was ordained as a Presbyterian deacon in 1993 and, after relocating to SC in 2000, elected to become ordained as a non-denominational minister. ~ I established "MandysPath" Ministry in 2011. "MandysPath" Ministry is a member of Pacific Life Church, El Sobrante, CA, network of ministries. ~ I direct an outreach ministry in an alternative setting, providing spiritual care to a congregation of more than 500 people from around the world via the Internet. ~ As part of this outreach, I write a daily faith based blog. In March, 2012 I was asked to become a board member of Heroes For Children which is a non-profit foundation, established to assists the Guardian ad Litem program of Horry County, SC. Guardians ad Litem are a group of court appointed advocates who represent the best interests of children in Family Court proceedings involving allegations of abuse or neglect. Working closely with these men and women who make a difference in the lives of children, I completed training and have been sworn in to serve as a Guardian ad Litem for the state of South Carolina . ~ I have been married since 1975 to a wonderful man, Daniel. I have a son Daniel and his wife Melissa who live in NYC. My daughter Sabrina and my grandson Landon live here in SC. ~ My father Harold continues to share his wisdom with me and is responsible for many of the ideas I write about!

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