Thought For The Day 05/13/13

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When People Talk….

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deeper-conversation

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Each generation of the church in each setting has the responsibility of communicating the gospel in understandable terms, considering the language and thought-forms of that setting. 

Francis Schaeffer

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We spend entirely too little time really talking to one another these days, and that is, indeed, a sad commentary on the times in which we live. All too often, we either ASSUME or we PRESUME to know what the other person will say, so we simply skip the dialog that might unite us both, in learning  from each other! And even when we do talk, we do so like a “bobble-head”. Our mouths seem to go at warp speed, but then we have only half an ear tuned into the conversation anyway….ESPECIALLY when that conversation turns to our beliefs in God and the essentials that comprise the things about faith that we hold to be absolute. And while it is good to have strong convictions, when it comes to something as potentially unifying as well as divisive as faith can be for many, it is only possible to grow when we allow for the fact that there is ALWAYS something to learn about it when we talk to others and share our “take on the matter”. You see, when people talk…..AND LISTEN…..great things can happen!

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Who has ever heard this particular Bible verse? Well, if you’ve read my posts for very long, I’ve cited it on more than one occasion! “A happy heart makes the face cheerful, but heartache crushes the spirit”  Proverbs 15:13 NIV. But have you ever really thought about why it holds such significance to me? Because when you are lighthearted and your heart is merry, you can’t help but approach everyone you meet in everything you do, in a positive manner. And when you have joy within, somehow people just seem to want to lean in and listen, if only to understand what has transformed you and led you to this point in life! And suddenly, those cold feet we get, which is often the sole reason we don’t open up, in the first place, disappear and suddenly, the prospects of sharing becomes less frightening and uncomfortable! Indeed, the old adage is true….practice really does make perfect! Suddenly, you find that it is much easier to engage in a conversation about things that might just be potentially difficult, such as is often the case when it comes to matters of faith. 

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Just one caveat to sharing things with others. Do your homework first! If you are choosing to discuss something technical, do a quick scan of a reference book or on the internet, to make sure the things you are bringing to the table really have merit and make sense, otherwise others may not take your suggestions seriously the next time you want to interact. If you are talking about baking a cake but don’t know that a cup is 8 oz, no one will want to eat the cake you make. It just won’t taste good! The same holds true for matters of faith. Now this does not mean that we all will be expert in all things we discuss. The good Lord knows I’m not, nor do I try to be! But what I try to do is learn myself, the same time I’m sharing with you! If you or I were all experts, there would be little need for us to talk in the first place, don’t you think? Just consider the opinion you are conveying, then try to bone up to make sure you can defend it adequately, should the need arise! Then have at it, and open up! Just make sure it is a dialogue you engage in, not a monologue!  2 Timothy 2:15 NIV, says “Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth.” But Jesus also says in Matthew 11:15 KJV, “He who has ears to hear, let him hear!” You see, really hearing requires a conscious effort otherwise we are merely listening, not hearing and definitely not learning!

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So go ahead and take a “leap of faith” about your faith! Share your heart’s desires about the things that matter to you and you might just help someone who was on the fence, decide to want to learn just a little more about your take on things. Who knows…..you might just be God’s catalyst, without even knowing that you are! Yes, indeed, when people talk…..AND LISTEN…..great things can…..and DO….. happen! EVERY DAY!

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 “Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, 20 teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And remember, I am with you always, to the end of the age.”

Matthew 28:19 NET

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About Mandy Bruscella

Mandy's Story: As a Registered Professional Nurse with Certification in a number of specialties including home care, I was afforded the opportunity of working closely with various Social Service Agencies in NY and NJ. ~ A lifelong Christian, I was ordained as a Presbyterian deacon in 1993 and, after relocating to SC in 2000, elected to become ordained as a non-denominational minister. ~ I established "MandysPath" Ministry in 2011. "MandysPath" Ministry is a member of Pacific Life Church, El Sobrante, CA, network of ministries. ~ I direct an outreach ministry in an alternative setting, providing spiritual care to a congregation of more than 500 people from around the world via the Internet. ~ As part of this outreach, I write a daily faith based blog. In March, 2012 I was asked to become a board member of Heroes For Children which is a non-profit foundation, established to assists the Guardian ad Litem program of Horry County, SC. Guardians ad Litem are a group of court appointed advocates who represent the best interests of children in Family Court proceedings involving allegations of abuse or neglect. Working closely with these men and women who make a difference in the lives of children, I completed training and have been sworn in to serve as a Guardian ad Litem for the state of South Carolina . ~ I have been married since 1975 to a wonderful man, Daniel. I have a son Daniel and his wife Melissa who live in NYC. My daughter Sabrina and my grandson Landon live here in SC. ~ My father Harold continues to share his wisdom with me and is responsible for many of the ideas I write about!

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