Thought For The Day 07/24/13


A Birthday Wish

Today’s blog is about anger. That is because it has been my lot for a few days. However, there are people in my life that take me beyond the visceral emotions that color today’s post. One of them is my daughter-in-law.

Somehow, Melissa seems to get her birthday wishes on days my blog is about negativity but she is one person in my life that takes me to my better place. I love her dearly and if I could have had a hand in choosing the perfect mate for my son, it would have been her!

Happy Birthday to my darling Melissa Bruscella! I love you to the moon and back!



Blowing Off Some Steam!




Anger always comes from frustrated expectations.

Elliot Larson


I have found myself pushed to my limits in the last 48 hours. Yes, the steam is escaping from my ears and I am discovering that because I have become angry at one particular entity, that suddenly I am angry at the whole world! I was nasty to the woman who does my hair, I was short with Landon’s afternoon daycare teacher, and perhaps, worst of all, I found myself snapping at my husband, which led him to snap back at me, because he was just as angry and frustrated as I was! And the amazing thing is that neither of us was angry at each other, but we were both angry at the SAME THING!


Our emotions are so like a snowball rolling downhill! The more they roll, the faster they gain both size and speed. And the larger they become, the more difficult they are to control. This is the same whether the emotions are positive or negative ones, which is why the euphoria of love can drive us to do foolish things exactly like the despair and unhappiness of anger can sometimes drive us to do the exact, same, foolish thing! And whether or not we believe in the Lord, that we all find ourselves victims of this weakness is our lot! After all, we can not escape the human frailties that became our destiny the moment we first drew breath at birth. But are there some lessons that our faith can teach us about this? Absolutely, although it is not always easy for us to see them….which is one lesson I am learning the hard way today!


1 Face the real issues

We must accept that human beings become angry. The question then becomes are we angry because we have allowed our pride to dominate our behaviors? Well, if so, its time to put aside our angry spirit and try to exercise self-control that is sometimes so very hard. So take a moment, take a breath and re-focus our minds to a peaceful place, and then re-address the issues that are disturbing to us!

2 Unresolved anger is always bad.

Man’s anger is never good nor does it ever accomplish what we need, whether it is a human need or a faith need! Which is why we are told to listen and learn from these wise words found in James 1:19-20 NIV, 19 My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, 20 because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires. Sometimes saying I am sorry accomplishes much even when the fault for the situation is not ours to bear, just as biting our lip when we are a hairs breadth away from stepping into the fray, can often smooth those ruffled feathers.

3 Live for Jesus Christ.

He has a plan for us all and as such, there is a purpose for every trial that comes our way. But if we remember to do the best we can to live the way we know God expects, that is the moment when we open ourselves to an understanding that there is a lesson worth remembering for every experience we are faced with….both good and bad!

4 May God destroy every last lie we speak!

Always remember that with anger sometimes comes the inevitable LIE! Yes, as much as we hate to admit it, sometimes we cover up our weaknesses with a falsehood which, while we mean it to boost our self esteem, only serves to erode our strength. So look to assume responsibility for your own mistakes and you will often discover the emotions of anger dissipating! Yes, when we are broken and turn to God, does He not welcome us and help us to overcome the sin that is wrought by our pride?

5 At day’s end, put your anger to bed and the next morning, replace that anger with love.

When we carry anger over day after day, we may find that anger transitioning into wrath. That is what happens once we allow those negative emotions to simmer. We feel even worse and the worse we feel, the angrier we become. But try replacing that anger by doing something good for another person. Suddenly, the weight of what has become all-consuming is lifted when we replace an angry spirit with a loving one!


Refrain from anger, and forsake wrath! Fret not yourself; it tends only to evil.

Psalm 37:8 KJV


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About Mandy Bruscella

Mandy's Story: As a Registered Professional Nurse with Certification in a number of specialties including home care, I was afforded the opportunity of working closely with various Social Service Agencies in NY and NJ. ~ A lifelong Christian, I was ordained as a Presbyterian deacon in 1993 and, after relocating to SC in 2000, elected to become ordained as a non-denominational minister. ~ I established "MandysPath" Ministry in 2011. "MandysPath" Ministry is a member of Pacific Life Church, El Sobrante, CA, network of ministries. ~ I direct an outreach ministry in an alternative setting, providing spiritual care to a congregation of more than 500 people from around the world via the Internet. ~ As part of this outreach, I write a daily faith based blog. In March, 2012 I was asked to become a board member of Heroes For Children which is a non-profit foundation, established to assists the Guardian ad Litem program of Horry County, SC. Guardians ad Litem are a group of court appointed advocates who represent the best interests of children in Family Court proceedings involving allegations of abuse or neglect. Working closely with these men and women who make a difference in the lives of children, I completed training and have been sworn in to serve as a Guardian ad Litem for the state of South Carolina . ~ I have been married since 1975 to a wonderful man, Daniel. I have a son Daniel and his wife Melissa who live in NYC. My daughter Sabrina and my grandson Landon live here in SC. ~ My father Harold continues to share his wisdom with me and is responsible for many of the ideas I write about!

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